I wonder how it feels to be truly in love, does it really exist
Is there someone that puts you before them makes my eyes mist.
Wondering if there's someone, who'll act like a mother to her child,
Is there ever a person that will treat you, as if you make their heart go wild.
Will there ever be someone, who sees the real me?
Sees that she's worthy of real love for free!
I can live in hope & meantime stay true to me,
Smile to myself, as the fools to blind to see.
I'm a genuine person & have a heart of gold,
I'm beginning to live, I'm getting a bit bold.
I'm expecting someone to look into my eyes,
See past the hurt & be really wise. 
The healing of my inner child has begun, 
I'm looking for real love & I'm looking for fun!

Sitting here thinking of times that we shared 
Actually believing that you really cared 
I really thought is found someone true
I thought that special someone was you.
How wrong was I to have given you my love
You only want to hurt me such a shame,
You were a player & you were playing your game
Little did you know, I've been here before,
I watched you in silence.. as you kept your score.
I wanted to believe you were different from the rest,
You're a sure disappointment, I wasn't impressed. 
You'll never get anywhere, your type never do,
Little do you realise the loser is you!

Isn't it funny how our  life pans out,
There's a map we can't see, without a doubt.
there are things that happen which we cannot stop 
It's to see how we react, to see if we can come out on top. 
Obstacles in our paths, we have no way of moving,
If we put a foot wrong they're always disapproving.
Give us a chance, give us a break, 
You have no idea of our heartache.
We want a happy life just like you, 
Instead survivors become just a few.
Most stay victims, the rules of life are hard, 
We haven't been taught simple rules of the heart. 
Our lives got stopped, paused at the brain of a child hurt & lost,
Trying to learn to live again is sometimes an unhealthy cost. 
We have to re live the trauma again & find a way
To want to live another day!

I've been diagnosed as having a very narrow spine, spinal stenosis.
I go into hospital on the 7th of November to have a spinal decompression & coflex stabilisation (a titanium implant inserted) & hydrocortisone injection to the coccyx. The spinal injections for the pain didn't work. 
I tore ligaments & tendons in my shoulder with being stubborn & using a walking stick instead of the chair. I got a hydrocortisone injection in that & it didn't work either.
I'm not guaranteed anything from the surgery but it can't be anywhere near the pain I'm enduring at the moment.
I'm on high doses of morphine with a cocktail of medicines. 
I've still got the hernias but they can be dealt with later... I hope!
I don't ave any hormones in my body & can't start HRT until i've had my surgery. 
Looking forward to a bit of light in the future....
I can eat after my last surgery so there's a plus to everything!
The scar from last years op is healing nicely...
Still the eternal optimist!

Today I turned a corner, I realised life's mine,
I stopped worrying about others & now I feel fine.
I have choices, I'm making them, I like what I see
I was conditioned to think you don't matter, I'm breaking free.
I spent my life putting others first. I didn't come into the equation,
As I feel life come back, I'm filled with elation.
What others wanted was always on my mind. 
I didn't matter but I was blind!
I never stopped to think of how to fix little me.
I would be stronger now if I'd stopped  & broke free. 
Life is so beautiful as I see things more clearly,
I'm going to deal with me now & kick ass severely.
It's my turn to live.. Feel the wind in my hair,
I've embraced the inner child & I've started to care.
Forget that old life. Repair me & live at last,
Start smiling for real & throw away that old mask!

Sitting here listening to the rusting of the leaves,
Trying to keep my mind at ease.
Trying to work out where it went wrong,
How my life's like one long sad song.
On & on my mind races trying to work it all out, 
Where's the stop button I want to scream & shout. 
This lost lonely feeling just  never goes away, 
It's the lost lonely child buried inside where she's destined to stay. 
I tried to fix her but I couldn't see 
I don't have the tools to help her break free.
I look at her somedays so lost, alone & sad.
I sit & ponder if she'd had help, life wouldn't be as bad. 
I sit & comfort her as much as I can her life should start,
Every time I go back it's breaking my heart. 
The terror the torture that's in that child's mind,
Makes me so cross that they were so blind.
I'm sitting with her now & all I can say
Is" little Lizzie you & I will be re united  some  day".
She's a patient little soul, she's waited so long,
I can't wait to be united & as one we'll be strong.